How To Use and Care For Crystal Dildos

Crystal dildos are pleasure wands made of various crystals, such as rose quartz. Although shaped like traditional dildos, crystal dildos offer a variety of unique benefits.

Here, we’ll look at how to use and care for your crystal dildos to get the most out of them.

How To Care For Your Crystal Dildo

Crystal dildos are low-maintenance, but there are some rules you’ll want to follow to properly care for them.

When you first receive your crystal dildo, gently clean it by placing it in a bowl of warm water and a bit of mild, ph-balanced soap.

Swirl the water for a few seconds and soak your wand for up to five minutes before rinsing it and wiping it with a dry cloth.

One of the biggest rules for caring for your crystal dildo is NOT boiling it. This can cause the crystal to crack.

Other tips to keep in mind when caring for your crystal wand include:

  • Crystals are highly sensitive to energy, meaning it is ideal if you are the only one in contact with your wand so it does not absorb other energies.
  • You can help keep your crystal dildo energetically clear by giving it regular exposure to sunlight, moonlight, and always setting an intention before using it.
  • Take the time to properly care for your wand.
  • Keep your crystal in a sacred, safe space that is out of direct sunlight and protected against chemicals or damage.
  • Clean your crystal dildo after each use with warm water and mild, pH-balanced soap.
  • Stay connected to your wand by spending time with it close to your body. You can try keeping it next to your bed, under your pillow, or meditating with it on your chest.

Amethyst wand

Benefits of Crystal Dildos

Along with being beautiful to look at, crystal dildos offer a variety of benefits, such as:

  • Help women feel connected to their yoni
  • Promote feelings of empowerment
  • Feel amazing used internally and externally
  • 100% natural as opposed to regular dildos
  • Each crystal has its properties, qualities, and abilities for releasing different chakras
  • Promotes a deeper connection between sexual energy and the heart
  • Magnifies sexual energy
  • Can be used for whole-body massage by rolling the wands, especially the larger ones, all over your body and placing gentle pressure on any areas of tension

Set Intentions, Not Expectations

Expectations harm many things, and your sexual pleasure is one of them. Placing too much focus on having an orgasm or squirting or any other pressure you place on yourself can zap all the joy and pleasure out of the experience.

Remove the goal of having an orgasm and focus instead on connecting with yourself and your yoni, clearing negative energy, accepting yourself, and being completely present at the moment.

Crystal Dildos Vs. Vibrators

As crystal dildos do not have any battery-powered vibration, they allow for more sensation, a chance to feel subtle vibrations from the body, and a deeper connection. This removes distractions and eliminates the potential negative effects of vibrators.

Eros wand.

How To Set An Intention With Your Crystal Dildo

To set an intention with your crystal wand, hold it in your hands, take a deep breath, and think about questions such as:

  • What do you need to let go of?
  • What do you want to bring into your life?
  • Do you need to close a certain chapter in your life?
  • Have you appreciated your body lately? Thanked it?
  • Do you want to lead with your heart more?
  • Are you looking to deepen your relationship with your sexual side?

Whether you are focusing on self-acceptance, self-love, forgiveness, or gratitude, allow your heart to feel the intention.

How To Use A Crystal Dildo

Tips for using your crystal dildo:

  • Start by creating a pleasure nest for yourself. There are no rules for this other than setting up something you enjoy. Light candles, play your favourite music or nature sound, scent the room, get out your squirt blanket… whatever you need to create a safe, enjoyable space to fall in love with yourself
  • Warm your crystal dildo up using warm water, or enjoy a hot bath or shower beforehand
  • Use breath, sound, and movement to clear sexual blockages
  • Use your favourite lube our oil (we highly recommend or Yoni Elixir Oil, Slippery Coco Oil, or our organic, pH balanced lubricant)
  • Soften your yoni by delicately using the wand to release any tightness or pelvic floor tension (crystal wands are perfect for softening pain from vaginismus or chronic pelvic floor tension)
  • Set your intention (gratitude, letting go, forgiveness, closing a chapter, manifesting money)
  • Focus on warming up the entire body by using your crystal wand to massage yourself all over (or do whatever it takes to feel safe, turned on, and in the present moment)
  • Infuse energy and intention into your yoni and begin gently massaging the cervix to help dearmour it and heal any numbness or pain that exists there
  • Work to replace any pain, tension, or discomfort with acceptance, forgiveness, and love. Crystal dildos are ideal for this as you can stimulate yourself internally while pleasuring the clitoris at the same time. Pairing any tension you feel internally with the pleasure of external play can help overcome chronic pelvic tension.
  • Ask consent before entering yoni
  • Slowly insert your crystal wand with the intention
  • Tune in to all the subtle sensations you feel – both mentally, emotionally, and physically
  • Slow down so you feel each sensation deliberately and deeply
  • If you orgasm, hold space for yourself and spread orgasmic energy throughout your entire body
  • Clean your crystal wand

Rose curve wand

How To Choose A Crystal Dildo

I offer several crystal dildos in my range, including various crystal types and different shaped wands. Each crystal and shape offers its unique benefits.

I often recommend choosing a wand based on your intuition. Ask your yoni what she wants. If you still feel uncertain about which crystal dildo is best for you, please do not hesitate to reach out to me for custom recommendations.

I also invited you to join my private Facebook group, a sacred, dedicated space where you can feel comfortable asking questions about crystal dildos, relationships, masturbation, empowerment — anything!